It's Giving MYOB: 9 Choices Women Make Without Apology
- Jan 12
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 12

Sis
Your Life, Your Truth: A Love Letter to the Sisterhood
Listen. Before we even get into it, let's be real about something: the world's got opinions about every move we make. From the moment we step out with our hair wrapped to that meeting where we "spoke too passionately," somebody's always got something to say. But here's what they don't tell you enough – your life is art, and you're the artist.
That Path You're Walking
Maybe you're that sis who left corporate to start selling waist beads and teaching financial literacy. Or you're holding it down in that C-suite, making sure the door stays open for those coming after you. Could be you're still figuring it out, switching lanes like Atlanta traffic. Whatever your move is, make it yours. And yeah, sometimes that means disappointing mama's dream of you being a doctor. Growth be like that sometimes.
Love & Other Magic
Real talk? Some of us are out here loving ourselves for the first time. Others are loving women, men, or choosing solitude like it's a fine wine. Your heart's journey isn't up for committee review. And for those navigating love while being everything from CEO to caregiver – I see you juggling those pieces with grace.
This Body, This Crown
From your 4C coils to your size 18 curves, every inch of you tells a story. Rock that fade, wrap that loc, embrace that gray. Your body carried stories across oceans – it knows what it's doing. And those stretch marks? Battle scars from growing into yourself. Beautiful.
Boundaries Like Sage
Some days you're burning sage and setting intentions. Other days you're just trying to keep your work chat from pinging after 5. Both are spiritual practices, if you ask me. Protect your peace like your grandma protected her good china – selective access only.
Soul Food & Sacred Plates
Whether you're eating your grandma's oxtails or choosing green juice and crystals, nourish yourself your way. Food is your first medicine, your connection to earth, to home. Some of us are reclaiming traditional foods, others creating new traditions. It's all sacred.
Your Story, Your Scroll
That timeline you're on – personal and digital – it's yours to curate. Share your wins, hide your process, document your journey, or move in silence. You don't owe anyone your narrative. Some chapters are just for you and your journal.
Money Moves & Legacy
We're out here breaking generational curses and building generational wealth, sometimes with the same paycheck. Whether you're investing in crypto or keeping it in your mattress like your grand mama taught you, trust your instincts. Just make sure you're taking care of future you.
Raising Kings, Queens, and In-Betweens
For those nurturing little ones – biological or chosen – you're doing holy work. Some of us are raising our kids with therapy and affirmations, things our parents never knew to give us. That's evolution. That's love.
Sacred Self-Care
It's not always bubble baths and spa days. Sometimes it's therapy appointments and uncomfortable boundaries. Sometimes it's saying "no" to that family function because your spirit needs rest. Honor that knowing.
Remember this, beautiful soul: every choice you make is building a bridge for another sister to cross; another ladder for you to lift as you climb. Your freedom gives others permission to be free. So take up space. Make noise. Choose peace. However you move through this world, do it knowing you're part of a lineage of women who dared to live on their own terms.
And when the world tries to make you small? Remember there's a whole sisterhood in your corner saying "Girl, do you." We got you.
Love,
Sisterhood Sit-In
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